Maybe

Was looking through oli's blog today and read an interesting post about how women always fall for the jerks and never the nice guy

Thinking about it and yah its true but not because they can't help it
this is wat I think... I'm very sure the jerk was not a jerk at the beginning ... but was a nice guy who seemed to believe in the girl ... give her all that she wanted and tell her things to hear... but with a sense of mystery... So as expected after some time, she falls for this guy...

and when he finds out that he has her... he changes back to who he really was and that’s when the girl makes a huge mistake ... in thinking that she can change him back to when he was trying... "If he loves me he will change..." big If coz u cant change someone to who they were not ... with all the tries of blackmail and wat not ... it's not going to happen ... coz its called choice... free will to be an ass ... even god won't change us ... in the end we have to change for ourselves... I'm sure the girl knows this and if not she can find out ... If she wanted to ...

and while the ass is being an ass ... there was someone ... there in the shadows trying to catch the girl every time she falls... he probably will or has stayed up countless nights to watch her thought the worst times of her life ... and wat does he get in return ??? The title of friend ... oh wow. There’s gratitude for u ...

to be there to catch all her tears ... only to get hurt every time she does ... coz every time she cries... it kills him slowly coz he knows that there is nothing he can do about it ... its her choice and now how do u tell the difference ... between the jerk and the nice guy ... simple ... is he like that to everyone ... both guys and girls ... My friends say that I treat women with too much respect and that they don't deserve it ...

well I think she does... everybody does ... but for her ... its exceptional... coz that’s wat she is ... Exceptional